The 2D Enneagram

  The Enneagram in this approach is built on two equally important dimensions: what your attention is unconsciously drawn to, and how you go about getting what you want.   Two dimensions:    What and how the Instinctual biases describe what we are unconsciously focused on: preserving comfort and resources (Preserving), understanding and navigating groups (Navigating), or making an impact and being noticed (Transmitting). These are deep, non‑conscious patterns of attention and motivation, not choices we think our way into.   The nine strategies describe how we try to get what we want, nine habitual ways of striving to feel a certain way (Perfect, Connected, Outstanding, Unique, Detached, Secure, Excited, Powerful, Peaceful).   In this sense, you can think of it as “three instinctual types with nine strategy subtypes,” but because this work sits inside the Enneagram tradition, it is usually described as “nine strategies with three instinctual subtypes.” ...

  Playful Friday [1]:     Today’s theme: Preservers.   Preserver: Likely to say   “If the house is warm and the fridge is stocked, I can finally relax.” “I don’t need a big crowd; give me my people, my sofa, and a working boiler.” “I feel better once I’ve checked the doors, the hob, and the heating… again.” “I’ll come out after I’ve made sure the plants are watered and the laundry isn’t sitting damp.” “Hosting is fine—as long as I control the food, the chairs, and the thermostat.” “You all can fight over the spotlight; I’ll be in the kitchen making sure the oven actually works.” “I don’t need to make a grand entrance; I just want the house solid, the bills paid, and the roof not leaking.” “If anyone remembers me as ‘the one who kept things working,’ that’s enough of a legacy.” “We can change plans, but we are not skipping that holiday meal; it’s how the year feels right.” “I keep that ugly mug because it’s from my gran, and that matters more than aesthetics.” “S...

  Communication tips Wednesday [1]:   A Simple Check-In for Preservers.    People whose attention leans toward preserving comfort and security often show love by taking care of practical details: meals, money, plans, health, the home. They may not always say “I love you” with words, but you can see it in the way they protect the “nest.”    If you are close to a strong Preserver, try this in conversation: notice the care behind their practical questions and say out loud what you see, for example, “I can tell you’re looking out for us,” or “Thanks for thinking about this so we’re not stressed later.” Feeling seen helps them relax and talk more openly.     #the2denneagram #enneagram #preservers

  Myth Monday [1]:     Myth: “Type 2 is about helping.”     Truth: The real driving force for Type 2 is connection. Helping is just one route; at the core, it’s the need to feel close, needed, and appreciated by others. If you’re a Two, notice all the creative ways you seek out connection, beyond just helping.     #the2denneagram #enneagram #enneagramtype2

  Every day we follow unique patterns in the way we feel, think, and act. Some of us react to stress with endless organizing, others by rallying friends, and some by searching for what’s next.   The Enneagram is a map; a way to recognize the recurring routes we all take in daily life. It shines a light on the habits that shape our relationships, work, and self-view.   Most importantly, it’s not about labelling who you are, but discovering which strategies you tend to use. Curious which everyday patterns might be shaping your life? Stay tuned as we look at how the Enneagram describes patterns in motion, never boxes you in.     #enneagram #the2denneagram #Personality