Myth Monday [1]:
 
 
Myth: “Type 2 is about helping.”
 
 
Truth: The real driving force for Type 2 is connection. Helping is just one route; at the core, it’s the need to feel close, needed, and appreciated by others. If you’re a Two, notice all the creative ways you seek out connection, beyond just helping.
 
 

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