Playful Friday [5]: Type 2
 
Type 2s strive to feel connected: they scan for needs, feelings, and opportunities to help, driven by a strong pull to feel close, appreciated, and wanted.
 
Type 2: Likely to say:
 
“I have a gift of knowing what the other person wants to hear and be appreciated about.”
“I feel better when I’m making someone else’s day.”
“I focus on what we have in common, not what sets us apart.”
“I might get jealous if someone else gets all the attention, especially if I feel I’ve done more.”
“You don’t want to connect with me? We’ll see about that.”
“Why don’t you want to do it for me? I would do it for you.”
“I get my sense of identity by who I’m connected to.”
“I take pride in bringing people together, and the more important these people are, the greater is my satisfaction.”
 
Type 2: Unlikely to say:
 
“Other people’s needs are none of my business.”
“I prefer to stay emotionally detached from everyone.”
“I never think about whether people appreciate what I do.”
“I’m completely comfortable letting relationships drift without checking in.”
“I don’t really care if we feel close, as long as the tasks get done.”
 
 

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