Communication Tips Wednesday [8]:
Type 5 (Striving to feel Detached)
 
Type 5s tend to be deliberate and thoughtful communicators, choosing their words carefully and preferring to speak when they feel prepared.
They dislike being rushed and usually release information on their own timing, after they have processed it internally.
 
Tips for Type 5s:
 
  • If you need more time, say so directly: “I need to think about this and come back to you,” rather than disappearing into silence. This protects your need for space without leaving others guessing.
  • Experiment with naming at least a small piece of your emotional reaction (“I’m frustrated,” “I’m anxious about this”) alongside your ideas. You do not have to perform feelings, but letting others see they are there can deepen trust.
 
Tips for communicating with Type 5s:
 
  • Give them time and information: avoid pressuring them for instant responses, and whenever possible, send details in advance so they can think before you talk.
  • Focus on data, clarity, and ideas rather than on emotional display; Fives are more comfortable and engaged when conversations are structured, calm, and centred on content, not drama.
 

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