Communication Tips Wednesday [11]:
Type 8 (Striving to feel Powerful) 
 
Type 8s tend to be direct, energetic, and assertive communicators, moving quickly to what they see as the core issue. They often speak with intensity and conviction, which can be experienced as refreshingly honest and protective, but also as intimidating or too forceful for some people. 
 
Tips for Type 8s:
 
Before jumping in, briefly check whether others are ready for your input (“Can I be direct here?”), which can soften the impact without diluting your message. 
 
Name your protective intention when challenging someone or something (“I’m pushing on this because I want it to be strong”), so people feel your backing, not just your pressure. 
 
Notice when your volume or intensity rises and consciously slow your pace or lower your voice a little, especially with more sensitive listeners, so they can stay engaged instead of shutting down. 
 
Tips for communicating with Type 8s:
 
Be straightforward and honest; avoid hinting, sugar‑coating, or talking around an issue, which they often experience as untrustworthy. 
 
Stand your ground calmly and bring clear facts or convictions; 8s generally respect people who are transparent, real, and willing to meet their strength without becoming either submissive or combative.

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