Playful Friday [12]: Type 9
 
Type 9s strive to feel peaceful: they scan for tension, conflict, and disharmony, wanting enough calm and inclusion to stay connected without feeling friction or pressure to choose sides. Their energy often smooths edges and bridges gaps, creating space for everyone to coexist comfortably.
 
Type 9 is likely to say:
 
“I see both sides, and maybe there’s a way to do a bit of each.”
 
“Let’s not rush; things have a way of working out if we give them time.”
 
“It’s fine either way; whatever keeps things smooth for everyone.”
 
“I’m not avoiding deciding, I’m just waiting until it’s clearer for all of us.”
 
“Why fight when we could just find the middle ground?”
 
“I tend to go along because harmony usually matters more than being right.”
 
“My superpower? Making a room feel okay even when no one agrees.”
 
“I don’t have strong opinions; I have strong preferences for peace.”
 
Type 9 is unlikely to say:
 
“This is black and white; pick a side and defend it to the end.”
 
“I need to win this argument right now, no matter who it upsets.”
 
“Conflict is great; let’s dive in and sort it out loudly.”
 
“My way or the highway. Everyone else can adjust to me.”
 
“I love forcing a decision when the group isn’t ready.”

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